Met With Daddy

Woke up at about 11something. Then immediately get ready to go to Subang to see dad. While on the way there bought the San Kee roast duck for dad n family. Then went to the ss19 to eat the mi hun kuih. (Joanne's favourite). Waited for about an hour just for this mi hun kuih.

Reach Leong house at about 2pm. Chit chatting with dad and mom...

At 4.30pm left. Went to Mid-Vally for shopping and movie. We watch the Panda Kungfu. A very funny movie. Too bad that we watch the cantonese version. Intend to buy the english version so that BB Chua can watch it as well.

We had our dinner at a nearby hawker centre 118. Reach home at about 11.30pm.

Today Joanne told me a marriage is like a gamble. She told me when we were shopping at Mid Valley, she saw an Indian family. In her past experiences and encounters, most Indians have very bad family relationship due to the males who are drunkards. I told her don't have such a racial thinking... but in a way its true. I told Joanne I definitely agree with her. After all I have lost my gamble before but I won this time for having this family.

When at Leong house mom told me, Mok's (bro-in-lw) nephew, at only 16yrs old already started to sell ICE. Mom told me its really not easy to look after kids. So, we must always becareful with our kids all the time.

While on the way back home after dinner, I told Joanne that Damai Perdana is already a township. All the while, she was saying this place is really a deserted place. (Even birds don't lay eggs here) But I told her, she has been staying here for more than 5 years liao.

Coming to think of it, actually my relationship with Joanne is all fated and pre-destined. When I saw Joaane last time, I did say in my heart... OOOH how nice if I can get this gal as my gf or wife. But I don't have confidence of getting a gf cos of my past reputation in the tour guides circle.

Then one night so coincidence, we were drinking in the casino... then proceeded to the disco STUDIO 98 in Genting Highlands. I was also there with my tour leader friend Linda. There itself when I get to know Joanne, I told Linda confidently that I am going to chase after this gal and made her my wife. At the disco itself, I got hold of Joanne's hp no and from there onwards I have been projecting on her.

Life is really predestined that we are together. Continuously a few groups while guiding, coincidentally she is also guiding. So, I took this opportunity to get to know her better and getting closer to her.

Finally, a night when we were guiding and staying in Melaka, this is the first time I made love to Joanne. From here onwards, I knew I have won her heart.

Just like what I have said all the while, even god is helping me to be with Joanne. While courting with Joanne (after about 2-3 mth), suddenly Joanne's landlord wanted back the house. So, immediately I offer her to shift over to stay with me. Initially she is quite reluctant... but with my persuasive technique, I finally manage to persuade her to stay with me...

Lesson Learnt: In love life, we must learn how to fight for ourselves. Just like my relationship with Joanne, because I have the confidence and really fight all the way... finally I won the heart of Joanne.