Day in and day out... I believe most parents are out there busy everyday... spending most of their time on work or looking for money. Everyday we are busy, busy, busy... And when friends, colleagues and loved ones (family members) asked.. hei where are you or when are you free to spend time to have a drink with us? And as usual, we are full with excuses... BUSY, BUSY, BUSY...
On this coming 13th June 2008, HCIMC (hotel college) excollegemates are organising a reunion again. I am having a very big question mark here. I really wonder if I can make it for this important day. For me its very important for me to meet up with these long lost friends. But on the other side I have been taking such a long holidays. I have no choice as my wallet is getting thinner and thinner. Friends will never understand this. So I have no choice but to take the Indian group on 12th June 2008. Anyway, I am telling myself... if its so happen that the itinerary arranged as such that I am in KL then of course I will be there. Friends are friends... they are also important...
LESSON LEARNT: I learnt the importance of friends when my relationship broke up with Joyce Lee (ex-gf). When one is down with a love relationship, friends are the most important because they are the ones who will cheer you up. You will spend most of your time with friends because you just cant afford to be alone at such a bad time. So, when with friends, time flies... and its easier to forget the relationship...
I have purposely taken this time off to spend more valuable time to be with my family members. As a tour guide, I go out work early than anyone. When I reach home, most of my family members are asleep liao. So, its very important that I have to arrange as such that I can spend valuable moments with my family members.
Two days ago, dad called saying it has been such a long time that he did not see me. In fact, I always made a point to visit them when ever possible. We visited them on the 1st June 2008 but unfortunately dad is not around. Again, he went to Butterworth to help with the bakery. Anyway, tommorrow I make it a point that I will go to visit dad. It always made me heartache to see them getting older. But I always feel so lucky that both my parents are still so healthy. I have always prayed that they will keep up to good health and longevity...
During this holiday, I found that its really worth it since Tze Yi has been accepting me. In the past, at times when I wanted to approach her is also difficult. She will cry when I wanted to hug her. But after spending few days with her, she started to accept me. What made me even more happier is that even Joanne is carrying her, she easily accepts me now.
This evening, we went to the playground. We play kites there. These days I started to play more with Jia Chen... M feeling so happy that my relationship with him is getting better and better.
LESSON LEARNT: No matter how busy we are, we should always find time to be with our loved ones. Our loved ones include everyone: Friends, colleages, relatives, all family members... How close our relationship is always determined by the time we spent on each other. The more time that we spent on each other the bond will grow eventually...
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No matter how bz u are,even for years u never see me , u must always remember me too.
If i were yr baby, i wouldn't accept u easily coz u hardly spend time with yr baby. Even u r at home, u need to play with her, even she didnt accept u at 1st. at least just sit there to watch her. Let her notice u. You work for weeks/months, n suddenly u come back, she'll be wondering..who is this man who wants to carry me. Of coz she wont accept u. Try to spend more time with her. even u r not working, let her notice u that u r there with her.
Flying kites is interesting too. Its good to GO FLY KITES at times. We went to the beach d other day just to FLY KITES..its fun, do it more often. Bring the whole family out to d beach n FLY KITE. Bet your kids will enjoy
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